“So you want to be happy? Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your entire day. If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding. Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have, and would have done. Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do; stop longing for something that has been out of your reach. Just live the days as they come. Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because YOU deserve it.”

Do you ever have days where it feels like it is YOU against the world? Days like which you feel nothing goes right? – Frustration, Powerlessness, Loneliness – These are definitely not ordinary words I like posting or like using on a regular basis. For various reasons ‘fine’ has become the default on ‘How are you?’ Be honest?!? What if we could, for just 2 minutes, say ‘How we are really feeling?’

Often times I feel many of us are too hard on ourselves.We fail to realize that we are a work in progress. Nothing is ever picture perfect. You might win, you might lose, maybe you will laugh. But Life isn’t always going to be fair and perfect, and at those times, is when it is truly anything but to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Remember, we are on a journey where it is inevitable to not experience obstacles. Sometimes you have to create new paths and find new ways to get there. Just remember ‘You can’t climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pocket.’😊

Be bold enough to live on your own terms, and never, ever apologise for it. Laugh in the face of Adversity. March to the beat of your own drums. See things through a positive and hopeful lens. Remember, this isn’t about anyone else. Your biggest motivation is you. This comes from the fact that you are doing this for YOU. Don’t ever let small things get to you. Let yourself breathe and Let yourself be. Laugh a lot.😀When you look in the mirror there is no greater satisfaction than to look yourself in the eye, smile and say: “Damn, I’m strong, brave, beautiful and nothing can stop me!”

Today, have FAITH in God’s plan for you. Because God hears every unspoken word, sees every unbearable wound, mends every unbearable pain. Trust in him.

Keep an attitude of faith.💙

Blessings and Love….

148 thoughts on “LET YOURSELF BE HAPPY

  1. How can I get over my ex boyfriend?
    On Aug 27, 2017 9:49 PM, “The Godly Chic Diaries” wrote:
    > The Godly Chic Diaries posted: “”So you want to be happy? Then stop > letting the smallest things ruin your entire day. If you’re bored with your > daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone > you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you. ” >

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    1. You might never actually get over him. But you must get on with life. Do the things you enjoy. Learn new things. Meet new people. Eventually, you’ll learn that the relationship was an important part of your story but not the whole story. If you keep obsessing about getting over him, you won’t live your life. Do exactly what’s in this post. Live your life.

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    Mythmakers all we are
    And so meeting
    Compare our mythologies
    (Like so many have before)
    Inner fire and heirlooms
    Bounced cheques and littered highways
    Dream rivers that disappear into the sand
    Heartflow that stops and starts
    And the long work of reconstruction
    Artists all we are
    And so meeting
    Compare our artistry
    Plain talk with rich recesses
    Nuances to old questions
    The curl of the cry
    At the wellsprings of voice
    Hunter at bay
    The poet crawls and capers
    Across the carnival and charnel-house of life
    Fractious fragment of the Creator
    Who hath made all things well
    Adolescent loneliness
    Adult uncertainty
    Menopausal anxiety
    And senile decay
    Actors all we are
    Though no spectator views us
    And so meeting
    Compare our pasts and futures
    As all our heres and nows come down to one

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  3. Yes, letting go of the drama in life is so important. I have also tried to lesson contact with “dramatic” friends and surround myself with positive, godly people who look on the sunny side.

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  4. Thanks for the post. Good advice. My mother’s words to me when things were bad were: At least it builds character. Of course it only builds character if you choose to grow because of your difficulty, as you’ve explained quite well.

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  5. To be truely happy, it is true that you have to stop focusing on small things and focus your mind on the bigger picture. That bigger picture states that you are in this world to be happy and to be of help to people close to you! When you are done with that. You are free to go.

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  6. Again, thank you for your timely and wonderful messages…this one reflects the reality I shared in the post I wrote today…I shared that I am feeling/working through anger. Being authentic is so important–and human! We may not always reflect sunshine and rainbows–but, can find our way back to that joyful feeling in time. Thanks for sharing 🙂

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  7. “Stop letting the smallest things ruin your entire day. If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected.” Yeah, we make our own sufferings I agree. If we try to change the way we look at things then life would be a lot easier and happier.

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  8. You have right. Of course all people in the world have problems, but too many people have negative thinking and no motivation to change work, life. It’s sad…
    I’m have fighting with social phobia, two or three times i’m have sucide attempt, my father is alcoholic. But i have belive in yourself and never gonna give up 😉

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      1. Yes. Of course we have right to be happy 😀 No problem and thank you very much for this words! I think you are good person ^^
        Greetings and love from Poland!

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