When Things Don’t Go Well

We are continually tested, either through blessings, to see how thankful we are or through trials, to see how patient we are.

This story is a great read and highly uplifting ~ Author Unknown

A daughter complained to her father about her life, and how things were so hard for her.  She did not know how she was going to make it, and wanted to give up.  She was tired of all the fighting and struggling.  It seemed as though in solving one problem,  two more would arise.

Her father (a chef) took her to the kitchen.  He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.  Soon the pots came to the boil. In one he placed carrots, in the second he placed eggs and in the last he placed ground coffee beans.  He let them sit and boil without saying a word.

The daughter impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.  In about twenty minutes he turned off the burners.  He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowel.  He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.  Then he ladled the coffee out and poured them in a cup.  Turning to her he asked, “Darling, what do you see?” “Carrots, eggs and coffee”, she replied.

He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots.   She did and noted that they were soft.  He then asked her to take an egg and break it.  After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.  Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee.  She smiled as she tasted it’s aroma.  She humbly asked, “What does it mean. Father?”

He explained that each of them faced the same adversity, boiling water, but each reacted differently.  The carrots went strong,  hard and unrelenting.   But after being subjected to the boiling water, they softened and became weak.  The egg had been fragile.  Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior.  But after sitting through the boiling water, the insides  became hardened.  However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were in the boiling water,  they had changed the water.

“Which are you”, he asked his daughter.  “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

How about you? Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with pain and adversity do you wilt and become soft and lose your strength? Are you the egg, which starts off with a changeable heart?  Were you a fluid spirit,  but after difficult times, have you become hardened and stiff.  Your shell looks the same, but are you tough with a stiff spirit and heart? Or are you like the coffee bean?

The coffee bean changes the hot water, the thing that is bringing the pain. When the water reaches its peak temperature, it tasted better. Are you like the coffee bean, when things are at the worst,  do you get better and change the situation around you .

Somehow, wake up and smell the coffee, takes on a whole new meaning.☕

It isn’t as bad as you sometimes think it is.  It all works out in the end.  Put your trust in God, and move forward with faith and confidence in the future.

Whether you like it or not, Adversity is part of life. To reject them is to reject life. The main thing is to never quit. Tough times never last, but strong people do.

May we all be coffee beans!!!✌






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